本書是人類史上第一本由人類企劃、ChatGPT撰寫的深度對談，全書中英對照，以呈現人工智慧的思維脈絡，從寫稿、翻譯到封面插圖，都由AI獨立完成。人生是段充滿波折的旅程，若說當局者迷，那麼身為「旁觀者」的人工智慧，是否更能夠理解人類情感，為我們指引人生的走向？（本文節錄自《尋找人生目標的45種方法》一書，作者：ChatGPT，以下為摘文。）
學著去分辨出哪些人只是路過，會是探尋人生目標過程中很困難但卻有必要的一個部分。在一生中，我們很自然地會跟不計其數的人產生關聯。
其中有些關係深刻、充滿意義，有些卻很偶然、極其短暫。但我們總想牢牢抓住所有關係，即便是不經意的交往也不放掉。而這樣就會使得我們很難真實活在當下，也沒有辦法去追求我們真正的目標與熱情所在。
那麼，究竟「分辨出哪些人只是路過」是什麼意思？其實就是指對於已經走到盡頭、不再對我們有益處的關係，要能夠看得出來。我們可能得去結束一段不再令人滿足的友誼或戀情，也有可能要讓自己疏遠那些負面、惡毒的人。
想要能夠辨別短暫的人際關係，我們需要在一件事情上對自己誠實，那就是「與他人交往，我們真正渴望或需求的是什麼」。
這意味著我們願意捨棄那些不再對自己有益的關係，即便再困難、再痛苦也願意放手；這也代表著我們願意去對那些負面、有害的人設定界線，並把時間與精力放在真正有用、能夠滿足我們的關係上。
專注於跟真正要緊的人進行深入而有意義的交往，是脫離短暫關係的一個方法。也就是說，我們必須投入時間與精力在最重要的關係上，在跟這些人相處時，要認真用心。
同時，這也代表著我們會斷開那些不再讓人滿足的交際，而去尋找與我們價值觀及人生目標一致的新關係。
參與活動、去追求與我們興趣和熱情相符的事物，是與短暫關係切割的另一個方法。這可能包括尋找新的嗜好與興趣，或對發展事業及個人目標展開行動。
藉由專注於真正重要的事物，我們就能把志趣相投的人吸引到生活裡來，並與他們建立更加深刻、更有意義的關係。
而擺脫短暫關係，也意味著能夠去原諒，並且能從過往的衝突與負面經驗中再出發前行。
這表示我們能放下恩怨，聚焦在人際關係的積極面向上。也代表著為了建立更強大重要的關係，我們願意坦誠溝通，並對我們所在乎的人誠實。
總之，與短暫的關係切割是尋找人生目標過程中困難卻必要的一環。這需要我們在「與他人交往的真正渴望和需求」上對自己誠實，並願意放下令人不滿的關係。
透過專注於跟真正對我們重要的人建立深厚、有意義的情誼，以及追求符合我們真正興趣與熱情的活動和嗜好，我們才能在生活中創造出對於目標與滿足的覺知。
Separating the relationships that are passing by can be a difficult but necessary part of finding purpose and meaning in life. As we go through life, we naturally form connections with a wide range of people. Some of these connections are deep and meaningful, while others are more casual and passing. While it can be tempting to hold onto all of our relationships, even the passing ones, doing so can prevent us from truly living in the present and pursuing our true goals and passions.
So, what does it mean to separate the relationships that are passing by? It means recognizing when a relationship has run its course and is no longer serving our best interests. This may involve letting go of friendships or romantic relationships that are no longer fulfilling, or distancing ourselves from people who are negative or toxic.
Separating the relationships that are passing by requires us to be honest with ourselves about what we truly want and need from our connections with others. It means being willing to let go of relationships that are no longer serving our best interests, even if it is difficult or painful to do so. It also means being willing to set boundaries with people who are negative or toxic, and to focus our time and energy on the relationships that are truly meaningful and fulfilling.
One way to separate the relationships that are passing by is to focus on building deep and meaningful connections with the people who truly matter to us. This means investing time and effort into the relationships that are most important, and being present and attentive when we are with those individuals. It also means being willing to let go of relationships that are no longer fulfilling, and to seek out new connections that are in line with our values and goals.
Another way to separate the relationships that are passing by is to engage in activities and pursuits that are in line with our true interests and passions. This may involve pursuing new hobbies or interests, or taking steps to advance our careers or personal goals. By focusing on the things that truly matter to us, we can attract like-minded people into our lives and build deeper, more meaningful connections with them.
Separating the relationships that are passing by can also involve being willing to forgive and move on from past conflicts or negative experiences. This means being willing to let go of grudges and resentments, and focusing on the positive aspects of our relationships. It also means being willing to communicate openly and honestly with those we care about, in order to build stronger and more meaningful connections with them.
In conclusion, separating the relationships that are passing by can be a difficult but necessary part of finding purpose and meaning in life. It involves being honest with ourselves about what we truly want and need from our connections with others, and being willing to let go of relationships that are no longer fulfilling. By focusing on building deep and meaningful connections with the people who truly matter to us, and pursuing the activities and pursuits that are in line with our true interests and passions, we can create a sense of purpose and fulfillment in our lives.
